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Make me wait?

I respect the 3-month rule. The rule I am referring to is the one in which person (female more often than male) sets a 3-month time requirement on how long the need to have been dating before they have sexual relations.

Its a smart rule. It can take between 3-6 months after infection for someone to test positive for HIV. I highly doubt the first date people have is to the clinic especially when they expect not to have sex for at least 3-months. Sexually active people (ideally) should be getting tested every 3 months given this information.

Another thing that contributes to the 3-month rule is the respect issue. One may be lead to believe that if a person has sex early with them, then they have with others as well. That is most often then not discouraged in this society. One wants to feel that they are special and not just a notch on the belt.

Here's where I cut the bull and get down to it and stop being so politically correct. Its more common for women to seek mental attraction as opposed to physical attraction, as well as it more common for men to seek physical attraction as opposed to mental attraction. So when a woman invokes a 3-month rule, she is seeking to get to know her partner better before she gets physical. Its quite understandable. They want to know that they are mentally compatible. There are plenty exceptions such as women that cut to the chase, or men who take more time than usual, but those are the lesser of the numbers.

I don't agree with the 3-month rule if there is a relationship to come out of it. Honestly, if we are not sexually compatible then I know that I can not marry that woman. Think about it. This means its going to be a bad experience after dark for the rest of our lives. I can not doom myself to that. This not to say that I would accept a perfectly compatible sexual partner minus us clicking on a mental level. Thats unacceptable as well. I just wouldn't want to waste a perfectly nice woman's time trying to get to know me and building bridges, when at the end of that period I found out that we aren't clicking physically and then I indefinitely have to break it off. It's not fair to us both.

Response from the fake delta

Notice how ignorant she sounds. And honestly, if you know me, or any LE Bruhs, yall already ready know we owt. #FAIL

[3:06:12 PM] Tracy: Telll u what truth?
[3:08:48 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: That you aint a delta
[3:10:10 PM] Tracy: LOL Loook BRUH!! I dont know who the hell u are..or who u think you are..But i dont have to lie to YOU or any body else abowt my shit..But u can kiss my black ass for thinkin that I do..U really got me fucked up..and I see why Bruhs and Sorors say that they dont fuck wit yo chapter if u a representation of IT!
[3:10:24 PM] Tracy: have a nice life
[3:11:42 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: I already verified through a whole bunch of Deltas that there ain't been a line there since 05 so cut the Malarkey. lol
[3:14:43 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: Real soror don't even talk like that. lol

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Fake Delta Alert

This is the transcript of the skype conversation I had with an imposter posing as a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, INC. They haven't had a line there since 2005. I made some calls.

[2/8/2010 3:15:16 PM] Tracy: hey
[2/8/2010 3:15:49 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: wats shakin?
[2/8/2010 3:16:01 PM] Tracy: U tell me booskie
[2/8/2010 3:16:37 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: Trying 2 figure out who you are? lol I'm sry
[2/8/2010 3:17:13 PM] Tracy: welll damn lol..im Soror..
[2/8/2010 3:17:40 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: I assumed so. well maybe.
[2/8/2010 3:17:51 PM] Tracy: maybe what?
[2/8/2010 3:18:18 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: What chapter? And Year? and Number?
[2/8/2010 3:18:43 PM] Tracy: ZX, Spr06. DEUCE/ROCK
[2/8/2010 3:19:04 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: What school is that?
[2/8/2010 3:19:18 PM] Tracy: Southen Illinois
[2/8/2010 3:20:23 PM] Tracy: is there a problem
[2/8/2010 3:20:56 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: I'm just checking up on you. Just wanted to make sure you were really soror.
[2/8/2010 3:21:20 PM] Tracy: WoW ok
[2/8/2010 3:22:01 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: Wouldn't you do the same? There are plenty of perps around.
[2/8/2010 3:22:47 PM] Tracy: To another Soror..Yeah..To a Bruh..Prob not
[2/8/2010 3:23:04 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: Carbondale or Edwardsville?
[2/8/2010 3:24:05 PM] Tracy: Its Carbondale..but sweety u doing way too much..lol Im grown trust me I dont have to lie abowt my shit..this is crazii
[2/8/2010 3:25:22 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: I never said anything about you being a liar. I'm just doing my research is all. I would hope that you would seek to know that I am a real bruh too.
[2/8/2010 3:26:26 PM] Tracy: I can do that with conversation..I could ask u questions and know that. U should know that
[2/8/2010 3:27:22 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: true that, but there is nothing like confirming something through talking to someone's DP or Chapter Members.
[2/8/2010 3:28:03 PM] Tracy: Sweety u not a RED lol
[2/8/2010 3:29:03 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: You are right. I am a member of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, INC. I can get in contact with reds. lol
[2/8/2010 3:30:56 PM] Tracy: Exactly..my Dean would laugh at you lol..But maybe yall do shit differently down there..Trust we not Suspect like the soors at yo school are now..dont wory abowt that!
[2/8/2010 4:27:06 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: Sry. back 4rm a meeting.No. your dean wouldn't laugh at me. Plenty of Sorors have lets da Bruhs no about perps claiming to be bruh. Vice versa. Thats y this is a brotherhood/sisterhood
[2/8/2010 6:02:33 PM] Jesse Lee Holloway Jr.: So, you wanna tell me the truth?